Smokin' Hot

A met a guy on an app, and he appears to be super interested in me. Of course I’m interested, but I’m really surprised he’s interested in me because he’s incredibly hot and I’m more on the chubby side. I feel like I’m being punked in spite of the fact he seems really sincere and wants to meet.

Sometimes it’s best to just enjoy the ride and not question what’s driving the situation. If you have things in common and the conversation flows like a river, then it makes total sense you’d go on a date. If you appreciate each other’s look, then there’s no reason to question it and it makes sense you’d go on a date. From my perspective, this seems like two guys who swiped right and actually talked to each other… and that miracle alone warrants a meet-up.

I’ve been dating a guy for a month, and I really like him. He’s perfect in every way, except for the fact that he smokes. It drives me crazy.

It’s all about non-negotiables, and if smoking is at the top of your list than you might have your answer. But before you act, I encourage you to really think about the “perfect in every way” statement you made. If that’s true, do the perfect things outweigh the one bad? If so, you might want to re-evaluate and try to find a way to co-exist with the one bad thing. The one thing you don’t want to do is to give the ultimatum to quit; he has to have his own reason to successfully do that. Give it some thought from all the angles, have an honest dialogue, and you’ll know what to do.

My husband loves his pot- so much so he refuses to go on vacation because he doesn’t want to go a week without.

I hear Los Angeles is beautiful this time of year… go have some fun in West Hollywood.